How do we define a good man for ourselves?
The only defination of a good man to me is, Richard. He went into his first and only courtship since his teenage years. Went into marriage in the late 20s, now with 2 kids. He doesn't own much things, but he never give his children any lesser happiness than other children would have. Worked hard for his family. Gave all the savings and money to his wife to control. He used to drink as pastime, but he gave up because he was once hospitalised due to overdosage of alcohol. He smokes. Usually somewhere that will not affect the healthy air ard his kids. He skimp and save all for his family, and everything for the family. Now that he's diagnosed with stroke, he turns very forgetful. He'd forgotten that his children are grownups, stepped into working life, they can take care of all family affairs. He'd forgotten whether he'd taken his medicine. He doesn't remember what day is today. So much details in life he has finally given up, letting down all his burden for 20 over yrs. Too much which I can't explain and tell to everybody. You can't imagine how nice man he was. My close ones would know.
Don't tell me someone who once go out on dates with all kinds of girls is good! Don't tell me that a person who made different woman pregnant then go for abortion is good! Don't tell me someone who's revengeful is good! I wanna see decent guys, please!
